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Women and Men, How Safe Are You? (In Your Daily Life) – 10 Tips to Protect Yourself

Women and Men, How Safe Are You? (In Your Daily Life) – 10 Tips to Protect Yourself 720 480 Jason Stadtlander

As I delve more and more into protecting personal information, protecting networks and helping with physical security – I tend to find myself thinking a lot about the security of the average person on the street. I walk down the street, mentally assessing each person’s vulnerability. Yeah, I know… it sounds a little creepy, but it’s amazing how many people are unaware of their surroundings.

So I want to take a moment and give you a few pointers on what I would term “S.A.R.E.”: Self Awareness at Recognizing Enemies.

It’s not about seeing everyone around you as an enemy. It’s about recognizing what your vulnerabilities are to an attack anytime you are in the public. I am shocked at how many people walk through the city, not paying attention to what is going on around them. Staring at their phones or simply not being aware of their surroundings.

I could make this list 20-30 items long, but these are what I would say are the most critical. And trust me men, this applies to you as much as to women.

How Safe Are You (In Your Daily Life) - 10 Tips to Protect YourselfTen Tips to Protect Yourself:

  1. Don’t be predictable. Be sure to alternate routes that you take when walking. Change up your schedule a little (even 5 minutes plus or minus can make a difference)
  2. Don’t stare at your phone while walking or being on the street. Glancing at your phone is fine, especially when following directions. Being fixated on your screen can cause you to trip, or more importantly be a target for an attack. Do not try and catch up on facebook or Instagram as you stand on the platform waiting for your train. You can catch up on that when you get on the train. Train platforms and bus stops are ideal locations for attackers and thieves.
  3. Don’t look down at your feet. Keep your eyes ahead of you. Looking down at the ground is a natural psychological trait. It enables us to not have to make eye contact with those around us (which in a city can be a LOT of people) and it allows us to be focused on our own little microcosm. But it’s very dangerous, especially when mixed with tip 3. If you’re looking down, you won’t see someone coming if you are their target and you also won’t be able to identify someone or a car if there is an incident that you ‘witness’. Look around at people constantly. You don’t need to make eye contact, but you need to be able to identify people if something happens.
  4. Be careful when wearing headphones while walking. Keep the volume low. If you can’t hear someone coming up behind you, then you can’t protect yourself, your purse or your backpack. If I were targeting someone for theft, I would absolutely look for someone with headphones on and looking down.
  5. Watch people watching you. It’s critical on the street, in the gym, even in the locker room to be aware of those around you. Try and mentally assess their motives, how much they are observing you, what kind of vibe do you get from each person. Trust your gut.
  6. Look around and be aware of the cameras that are watching you. This isn’t just seeing security cameras to ensure that you walk in areas that will see you if something happens. It’s also about making sure that you are not being videoed or photographed by someone with a phone without your permission.
  7. Watch out for tailgaters. A tailgater is someone that acts like they have access to the same building/gate that you have access to and following you in. If you don’t recognize someone and they are following you into a secure area, question them. (“Can I help you?”)
  8. Password protect your phone and don’t leave your phone at your workspace. Today’s phones are not cheap (as we all know). They are prime targets for would-be thieves.
  9. Keep your backpack/purse secured on yourself. Holding the strap of your backpack or your purse will ensure that even if someone ran by and grabbed your bag, they will have to handle the fact that you are already holding onto it.
  10. Be aware of your electronic presence. Google yourself regularly. See what shows up. Be aware of the photos you post. Don’t ever “check-in” when away from home, it’s a blazing announcement that it’s ok to go rob your home. Never post photos when on vacation on the same day you take them.

Cities: The Beautiful and The Ugly

Cities: The Beautiful and The Ugly 150 150 Jason Stadtlander

Being from the country and having lived in Columbus, Ohio, not one of the most beautiful cities in the world – especially in the 80’s, I always have had a dismal look on city life. However, having lived in Boston now for about fifteen years, I must admit, the city does have its beauty that others might not see.


The heartbeat of Boston

The city is a world completely created by man, nature pokes its head out here and there but overall, it’s a living breathing beast all it’s own. It has its own heartbeat that beats quite fast during the day and although it slows down at night, it doesn’t really stop like a small town does.

It’s not unusual to be in Boston (or any major city) and see pigeons, hawks and owls. The occasional bat is frequently seen as well as squirrels and raccoons. Nature is a funny thing, no matter how populace a place becomes, there are always signs of nature around.


Walking through the city early in the morning, there is a peace as the sunlight slowly filters through the buildings on the concrete and brick landscape. On rainy days you can sit by the window and watch as people walk by with their umbrellas and the  puddles fill up, creating streams along the pavement, gutters and sidewalks. Green grass takes on a brilliance that is seldom seen.

Boston draped in snow

In the winter as the snow falls, it brings a silence down upon the city like a blanket. Instead of echoing sirens, it is much easier to hear the birds, people talking and the wind blowing. Also, there is a strange beauty to it. Don’t get me wrong, I will always love the country more than the city – I have a strange fear of being around large masses of people, I’ve never liked it (demo-phobic?).

However the city definitely has its own beauty as well. There is also something innately solid to the society of a city. You do not just have a small group of people with a small group of talents. There are tremendous amounts of greatly talented people; from the musicians in the subways to the doctors in the hospital to the actors in the theater district. It is a true honor and privilege to see the culture of a city like Boston.


Beacon HillNothing is more fascinating to me than history, where we have come from, what existed long before I was around. Boston is steeped in a great history dating all the way back before Europeans came to the area. Walking through the brownstones on Beacon Hill you can really feel the history as everything has been so well preserved, gas lamps along the walkways and cobblestone streets. It is all part of the city’s memory and it’s a wonderful thing to explore.


The Night

Boston at nightNight life has a whole new meaning when it comes to the city. I went to the Museum of Science not long ago with my children and we stuck around all day until they closed at 5:00 pm. Well, in December, that basically means night has fallen of course, so we went up to the top floor of the parking garage – where incidentally; they have an observatory where you can see the stars, and we stood looking at the city. From our vantage point we could see trolleys going by on the elevated Green Line near the Museum, Bunker Hill bridge lit up and all of the buildings, it was a beautiful sight. We stood there for a long time, just enjoying the scene.

I think all in all, living in the city has helped me to appreciate the beauty despite the lack of greenery. Don’t get me wrong, there are still the ugly things, poverty, crime and in the dead of summer, sometimes the stench, but overall there is a life in the city that few country people might understand.

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